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My ex girlfriend of 8 years is an I think poispoisonings son 2 wards me I have had these problems with this lady from the day we split ever hear about this time of year she I think gets 2 much sun an it is around her birth day in July please don't take this the wrong way I have been in my son life from the day he was born as he was born on the 26 /08/ 2910 and I don't c what this women's problem is as every time we had need any thing I have all ways provided 4 my son even with out social security be told of this I have all ways told my son if there is any thing he every wanted an if I could afford it he could have it an I have all ways kept my word as I have all ways said 2 kaidan my son I will never promise him any thing co use broken promises r wrong so I have an never will promise him as so many promises I had made 2 me when I was growing up I don't want 2 c my son ending up the same way as I did in my team age years in an out of prison an I don't want this for my son an all I can c of his future with his mum all ways letting him down an ling 2 him that is where he will end up an I could not cope with that ad he is a very bride an wonderful out spoken child who needs 2 not have these problems in his life as at his age he should be enjoying every moment of this young stage in life I an not trying 2 blow my ones trumpet as I am not the best add in the world as of my past as I have put my self in some very very stupid situations throughout my life but I like 2 think have com out of it a better man as I would not look back in anger as all I did I brought upon my self an have all ways felt the same but the most important reason for asking these questions I why does she do this all the timegets her knickers n a twist an all pay no matter what an now it even worst co use I am not a well man no more as I surrerd a minor stroke last year at this time it was a good job I had some friends around at the time or so the doctor said if I had of one 2 bed that might I would have not woke up the next day so I did the right thing co use it was the start of school holidays an had picked my son up from school the day b fore but the first thing I did was ring Kaidans mum an said that he had 2 go back home co use I was having a stroke at that time an had 2 go hospital right away but I waited for his mum2 get someone 2 pick my son up from my house in Gloucester an be taken back 2 Swindon where she was reallocated co use of her then not friend an the violence that was going on at the time between them I have no idiea what was happening but every now an then when my son was ment 2 be going home as to our agreement she would ring me an day can I not bring kaidan back tillnext day an take him 2 school which I willing then did as I would run anywhere for him even after I came out of hospital last year just b4 my son birthday as no matter what I all ways said to the nurse's I would not be iin hospital for my son 7 birthday so spent 3 weeks in hospital in ward 6 stroke ward it was a very badtime in my life an I never want to be there again no thanks 2 my son mum ireally think there is 2 reasons y she is doing what she is doing the first reason is I have bought my son Xbox 1' an ps4 an about 7 to 8 weeks ago this mum up an took it on herself to take my son's Xbox in to the pawn shop an pawn it an then blame his 1 year old sister for breaking itby droping some thing in it an breaking the lens inside now if this would of happened the way she said his little sister would have had2 of dropef a very heavy brick on it but no his mum said it was a toy so I asked her what was this toy was it a very heavy pepper pig soft fluffy toy an the responds I got was it is not any of my business what happen as 2 it now as I did save money up 2 buy my son this Xbox 1s for his Christmas in 2017 it has never broke b4 as the lens r not that easy 2 break an she said that she had taken the said Xbox 2 be repaired but I New the truth an told my son what I think had happened an so every time I picked my son up from school in Swindon on a Fri at 1o'clock every week co use I did not like the reason why she said she could not go an get it back an so she Said she was to I'll 2 go an get it back but was nofto I'll 2 take in 2 down an then every week go shoping in town so there is the lie an about 3 weeks ago I was ment 2 pick my son up from school as useual an I had not been paid then so could not get any shoping in or put petrol in car 2 go pick kaidan up from school which I did every Friday an was there all ways on time apart from one day when traffic was very heavy as it sometimes is on the 419 to Swindon an was late but went 2 school to get him but he had gone y I do not no co use he should not be led out with out a adult 2 get him so I went 2 his mum's right away but he was not there so his mum eldest daughter a bit friend ran to the school a got him as I tried when I went 2 recpction at the school an tryef 2 explain 2 the school an they just brushed me off like I was a dirty stranger even though I explained I was k aidans dad but no they was not interseted so I waited at his mum's an a she did was none even after expanding 2 get some times the road is bolocked co use of accidents on the 419 as it is a very unpodictbule road as people fly down there a so outrageously dangerous speeds but every other time I made it even when I came out of hospital when I had 2 catch thetrain even though it was very hard for me as I just said I had only just came out of hospital an had difficulty walking an had 2 get a taxi 2 train station then get a bus to pen hill where she was living now as she would find it very outrageous of me 2 ask her 2 bring him 2 train station so it would be a little easier 4 me don't get me wrong please some times if she was in town she did not mind bringing mg son 2 meet me so of we went back up to platform 2 wait for train that was at least a hrs wait every time an i paid for this all ways as she ghost it was not get responsibility 2 help pay any thing an if cost me £20 pounds in a Fri an then near on 30 on a Sunday as we had 2 get taxi 2 glos train station then 5 pound for my son an 10 for me as I had to come back now she did not mind meeting me an a Sunday but if she did not as most times she would not I had to take my son in bus back but she did meet at bus stop which is a 2 minute walk from her house sorry 4 sounding like I am going on but please beleave me now for some reason she is all up an being the same again a n really do think that she is trying 2 kill me through stress as it is not good for me after my stroke last year I have2 take tablets now for the rest of my life tablets for high blood pressure every day an pill for my stomach to stop the tablets I an on hurting my stomoch an tablets 2 help me sleep an lain killers every day co use of my hips that I need a walking aid 2 help my walk as I need 2sit down an rest after walking 4 a little while the dsshave now classed me a seriously disabled an i used 2 ride my bycle every where b4 my stroke iused2 pick my son up from scho every day when they lived in tuffley an kaidan went 2 grange infants school for the first6 years of his school life then we used 2 do things after school like park in summer an playfootball an play in play arena where he learnt 2 over com his fears of climbing an the zip line an swings an kaidan was be coming a very adventurous boy but his mum would all ways try an stop him doing an form of sport co use he would not do sports day co use he thort that if he did not win she would not be proud of him so every time it came round 2 sports day I would explanre 2 my son that it's not the point of winning it the taking part an enjoying him self an the one time he did go 2 sports day train afternoon the school used a field in podsmead tuffley for training an my son asked if I would com an watch an cheer him along an i said yes but his mum could not be bothered 2 join us there an all she kept doing was ringing me an saying I had best not fing let my son down an that is one thing I would never do an she knows this as I have all ways tryed 2 be there when ever I could or she would stop getting her knickers in a twist an blaming ever body for hetproblems like all the times she would say can I come get my son an take him with me co use her an her current boyfriend were at each other's throuts on many occasions she would all ways blame her boyfriend for the problems between them but I no what this lady is about as she used2 cause some big problems between me an her when we were cohabiting an she did not like the fact that I used 2 go home twice a week 2 my Owe flat an everyweekend at hersbut eventually we parted company after our - son was born an after that I made sure I was there every day for my son an this she did not like as from day one I have tryed 2 be there I used2 sit for her an her eldiest when ever she wanted to 2go out with her friend s an not com back untill the next day late morning from her friends just across the road not even a phone call saying where she was or how long she would be then she brought a new man in to her life call rich who she was constantly at odds with fighting all ways an blaming this man for all the probe but please don't take this wrong ninety per cent of the time it was her who would hit out co use she could not get her way an then blame her then boyfriend as she did with me I am not saying that my shit don't smell but I have never hit a women in my life an never would but this women pushed an pushed to try anmake me hit her she has even ripped t-shirts of my back as I am walking away even when we were not in a relshonship an i asked her what was she trying 2 do make me hit her like her past relonshoneships from her eldest daughter an i said this would never happen so wind all she wants as I am a very easy going man a her trying 2 wind me up to hit her an she hated the fact that I just would not hit her so now the problem has happenedagain she has started it once again as it is this time of year where my son loves coming to my house in summer holidays where he will want to spend near on all 6 weeks at mine as every time I say com on my boy time for I to go home he all ways said can't I stay 3 or 4 more days an that waz his exectic words can I stay 3 more days an who was I 2 say no he is my son an if he wants it he can have itas I never had much when I was young I had 2 steel swop or borrow but most of the time I was Is little bigger a I took it what I wanted an no one was ever going 2 stop me an 2 quote a police offcer from my youth he once told me that I was over heard on the bus saying these excet words if I ever want any thing there was no one big enuc 2 stop me taken it anthem day there was not any one co use I just did not give a flying .... about any body but as I have grown up I ha so changed my way said have a lot of respect for people an my elders as that was one thing I did have when I was a youth respect for my elders an the police man was call dc John docerty an i still have the same regard for this man 2 day I respect him very much as he was the only copper who was on the ball an new when I was wrong an only picked me up when I was wrong now 2 finsh please can any one out there help me with this problem I have with my son mum who Is trying to turn my son aganst me an i think trying 2 kill me by doing what she is doing right now help thank u

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